Get to Know the Facts of Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is a problem that affects every community across the country. It crosses all races, social and economic
backgrounds, cultures, religions and relationship types. It is reported that 1 in 4 women suffer from domestic violence in USA. Domestic violence is a frequent occurrence, and this tragic personal situation can carry over into a woman’s professional life.
Domestic violence is not confined to any one socioeconomic, ethnic, religious, racial or age group and knows no geographic or educational boundaries. It also occurs within teenage relationships and among same-sex partnerships.
Types of Domestic Violence:
Physical violence is the intentional use of physical force with the potential for causing death, disability, injury, or harm.
Sexual violence is divided into three categories: 1) use of physical force to compel a person to engage in a sexual act against his or her will, whether or not the act is completed; 2) attempted or completed sex act involving a person who is unable to understand the nature or condition of the act, to decline participation, or to communicate unwillingness to engage in the sexual act, e.g., because of illness, disability, or the influence of alcohol or other drugs, or because of intimidation or pressure; and 3) abusive sexual contact.
Threats of physical or sexual violence use words, gestures, or weapons to communicate the intent to cause death, disability, injury, or physical harm.
Psychological/emotional violence involves trauma to the victim caused by acts, threats of acts, or coercive tactics. Psychological/emotional abuse can include, but is not limited to, humiliating the victim, controlling what the victim can and cannot do, withholding information from the victim, deliberately doing something to make the victim feel diminished or embarrassed, isolating the victim from friends and family, and denying the victim access to money or other basic resources.
What are the signs of domestic violence?
If you believe you may be in an abusive relationship, here are some questions to ask yourself:
Have you ever been physically hurt, such as being kicked, pushed, choked or punched, by your partner or ex-partner?
Has your partner ever used the threat of hurting you or members of your family to get you to do something?
Has your partner ever injured or abused your pets?
Has your partner ever destroyed your property or things that you care about?
Has your partner tried to keep you from seeing your family, going to school or doing other things that are important to you?
Do you feel like you are being controlled or isolated by your partner? For instance, does your partner control your money, transportation, activities or social contacts?
Have you ever been forced by your partner to have sex when you did not want to or to have unsafe sex?
Is your partner jealous and always questioning whether you are faithful?
Does your partner regularly blame you for things that you cannot control, or for his/her violent outbursts?
Does your partner regularly insult you?
Are you ever afraid of your partner or of going home? Does he/she make you feel unsafe?
There are other signs of domestic violence that observers might see in a relative or friend who is in an abusive relationship. They include:
being prone to “accidents” or being repeatedly injured
Having injuries that could not be caused unintentionally or that do not match the story of what happened to cause them
Having injuries on many different parts of the body, such as the face, throat, neck, chest, abdomen or genitals
having bruises, burns or wounds that are shaped like teeth, hands, belts, cigarette tips or that look like the injured person has a glove or sock on (from having a hand or foot placed in boiling water)
Having wounds in various states of healing
Often seeking medical help or, conversely, waiting to seek or not seeking medical help even for serious injuries
Showing signs of depression
Using alcohol or other drugs
Attempting suicide








